r/TheRealFriendsOver40

Founded September 2022 · Public — anyone can post

Updated Sep 25

A NO Selfie Sub. Welcome to TheRealFriendsOver40Lounge. A place for those 40 and over to come hang out when we need those little breaks throughout the day.   Please read our community guidelines; and when ready, pour yourself a drink, take a seat and join us. We look forward to meeting you.

Members

15,191

15K

Online now

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not captured in the last snapshot

Posts per day

13.3

from the last 100 posts, spanning 7.4 days

Comments per post

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no sample yet

Growth · 7d

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not enough history yet

Growth · 30d

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not enough history yet

Promo tolerance

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not assessed yet

Last post

Nov 8

sampled Nov 9

Distinct posters

61%

of the last 100 posts

Tracking since Sep 25 · growth spans are the real distance between snapshots, not rounded windows. Posts/day is measured from the community’s own newest posts on Reddit, not from what Prowlo happens to crawl.

Member growth

Tracking since Sep 25 — growth charts appear after a week of history.

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r/TheRealFriendsOver40 — frequently asked

How many members does r/TheRealFriendsOver40 have?

r/TheRealFriendsOver40 has 15,191 members as of our most recent crawl on Sep 25. Prowlo re-checks tracked communities on a rolling schedule, so this figure moves rather than sitting frozen at whatever it was when a scraper last ran.

Is r/TheRealFriendsOver40 growing?

We don't have 30 days of snapshot history for r/TheRealFriendsOver40 yet, so we're not going to invent a growth number. We've been tracking it since Sep 25; the chart fills in as history accumulates.

How active is r/TheRealFriendsOver40?

Around 13.3 posts per day, measured from the newest 100 posts on Reddit, which span 7.4 days. Posting rate matters more than subscriber count when you're deciding where to spend your time — it determines how long your comment stays visible.

When was r/TheRealFriendsOver40 created?

r/TheRealFriendsOver40 was founded in September 2022 and is a public — anyone can post community. Age matters: an older community with steady growth has survived Reddit's moderation churn; a young one with a spike may not.

Who posts in r/TheRealFriendsOver40?

Of the last 100 posts we sampled, 61% came from distinct accounts; the newest was published Nov 8. A low share means a feed dominated by a handful of accounts (bots, mods, or one prolific poster) rather than a community.

Can I promote my product in r/TheRealFriendsOver40?

We don't have a promo-tolerance read for r/TheRealFriendsOver40 yet. Default to the safe approach: read the sidebar rules, contribute in threads where you gain nothing, and mention your product only when it is the honest answer to someone's question.

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