r/raisedbynarcissists

raisedbynarcissists: for the children of abusive parents

Founded February 2013 · Public — anyone can post

Updated Sep 16

This is a support group for people raised by abusive parents (with toxic, self-absorbed or abusive personality traits, which may be exhibited by those who suffer from cluster B personality disorders). Please share your stories, your questions, your histories, your fears and your triumphs.

Members

1,110,418

1.1M

Online now

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not captured in the last snapshot

Posts per day

117

from the last 100 posts, spanning 20.4h

Comments per post

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no sample yet

Growth · 7d

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not enough history yet

Growth · 30d

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not enough history yet

Promo tolerance

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not assessed yet

Last post

Oct 25

sampled Oct 25

Distinct posters

97%

of the last 100 posts

Tracking since Sep 16 · growth spans are the real distance between snapshots, not rounded windows. Posts/day is measured from the community’s own newest posts on Reddit, not from what Prowlo happens to crawl.

Member growth

Tracking since Sep 16 — growth charts appear after a week of history.

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r/raisedbynarcissists — frequently asked

How many members does r/raisedbynarcissists have?

r/raisedbynarcissists has 1,110,418 members as of our most recent crawl on Sep 16. Prowlo re-checks tracked communities on a rolling schedule, so this figure moves rather than sitting frozen at whatever it was when a scraper last ran.

Is r/raisedbynarcissists growing?

We don't have 30 days of snapshot history for r/raisedbynarcissists yet, so we're not going to invent a growth number. We've been tracking it since Sep 16; the chart fills in as history accumulates.

How active is r/raisedbynarcissists?

Around 117 posts per day, measured from the newest 100 posts on Reddit, which span 20.4h. Posting rate matters more than subscriber count when you're deciding where to spend your time — it determines how long your comment stays visible.

When was r/raisedbynarcissists created?

r/raisedbynarcissists was founded in February 2013 and is a public — anyone can post community. Age matters: an older community with steady growth has survived Reddit's moderation churn; a young one with a spike may not.

Who posts in r/raisedbynarcissists?

Of the last 100 posts we sampled, 97% came from distinct accounts; the newest was published Oct 25. A low share means a feed dominated by a handful of accounts (bots, mods, or one prolific poster) rather than a community.

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